Last updated on April 3rd, 2021 at 09:45 pm
Iāve mentioned perception before; we often look at things the wrong wayāwithout necessarily meaning to do soāand the world is a big place filled with lots of things. Even if it were possible to know everythingāand fortunately, itās notāthe world is full of surprises. Itāll hit you with curveballs, itāll catch you unguardedāitās a random world out there.
I’ve definitely spoken on perception before, but let me drive the point home once moreāa key reason why the world’s as messed up as it is is that too often we perceive things incorrectly.
Have you had arguments because someone only knows half of the story? Or got in trouble for something without understanding why the other person’s angry? Or maybe you’ve wrongly accused someone because your information all seemed to point in a certain direction, regardless of whether it was accurate?
Part of the problem is a plethora of perspectives!
Everyone’s entitled to an opinion. I firmly believe that voices should be heard and to silence someone without hearing them out only speaks to the inability of the silencer to hear things that they might not want to. But the flip side of the coin is that we can use all of our individual voices without intelligenceācoming to conclusions too quickly and spreading misinformation as a result.
Looking at things from the wrong perspective can have all sorts of resultsāfrom the comical…
- The first time I got in trouble for blasting rap tunes with swear words since all I’d heard before as the censored version
- The time where a crazy lady (and I do not use the term lightly) thought I was a scam artist trying to pull a fast one on my friend
- When girls would ask me if I were the guy from Save the Last Dance shortly after the movie come out (really shouldāve milked that more…)
…to the tragic…
- People who get jailed wrongfully due to an incorrect interpretation of evidence
- People who get killed due to mistaken identity when killers make wrong assumptions and slay people who may have had nothing to do with the intended target
- Or even whatāre billed as 25 of the worst mistakes in history, many of which stemming from jumping the gun, misaligned perceptions or simple stupidity (where the rest of us would view the decision they made as stupid)
So our perceptions and others should not be taken lightly, as they can have profound effects on our lives. We need to make sure we donāt jump to conclusions too quickly, as misinformation only makes everything more complicated. News media thrives off of information. Major decisions are driven by information. People live or die due to informationāso imagine what could happen if the wrong actions are taken due to bad information?
Looking again at what Iāve mentioned about self-perception, the truth of the world is the sum of our individual perceptions. So we need to think. We need to be sure of what we say and understand the weight that our words may hold. For itās not only your reputation to worry about when things go wrongāthere are always ripples in the pond, and then the waterās unclear, itās much harder to see past the surface. So keep that pebble in hand until youāre sure itās time to lob it.
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